Yeah, my H went through about 2 weeks of contacting the OW after he told her it was over and came back home to me. Then she actually told him to leave her alone and is no longer returning any of his calls. So that is where I am currently...with a roommate H that is heartbroken over the OW rejecting him, although he is the one that ended it in the first place.

But during the time when he was still calling her and text messaging her (and not really hiding it), I debated on if I should ask him to leave or not. I ended up just keeping him at home. He wasn't seeing her in person (as far as I knew) so that was my reasoning, but it was a difficult decision.

I haven't been touching my H at all. I yern to hug him or kiss him, but I have been giving him his space. I know that his LL is acts of service and I have been working my butt off trying to do things for him. I think he notices, but who knows.

Hang in there...it is difficult!

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08