Help/Advice IV

[craig54]

woog, try as you might, don't try to make sense of what your wife is saying. it will only set you back. i know exactly how you are feeling. my wife comes home after being gone two weeks dealing with her fathers death and dealing with his affairs. we talked everyday she was gone. she called , not me. very friendly. prayed all day to keep my expectations low. failed, nothing she did, just wanted something more than she can give at this time. i went into room and cried.my fault, i knew she would be worn out emotionally. fortunately i did not say anything to her that was considered pushing, i just told her i was glad she was home safely. i just prayed for more stregnth and patience. i just expected more after not seeing her for two weeks. i was nervous about seeing her. thank Jesus, i kept my cool. woog, just step back and take a deep breath. you can do this. we can do this. i pray for you daily. take care.