MLC came to my house...

[tpaschal]

Sandy,

Well, not to excuse him in any way, but it was the day after the bomb, he was denying OW and I hadn't discovered proof yet though I strongly suspected, and he was filled with huge guilt and shame and rage (at himself and at me.) He used alcohol to self-medicate and was rip-roaringly drunk when he made the comment.

I'd love for you to read my thread sometime if you get a chance.

You know, sometimes I think there's a direct correlation between how wonderful they were before MLC to how nasty they become during MLC.

I'd also like to know how many of the hate-spewers ended up back home. It seems as though many of the H's who are reconnecting now are ones who did act out, and did have OW's, yes, but didn't vomit so much hatred and anger on to their LBS's. But maybe I just haven't been around long enough to know the whole story.....

Is their hope for my venting, spewing, vomiting, hate-filled MLC'er?

Inquiring minds want to know.