Thanks! I am not sure if this will help you or not, but drawing her toward you is not really the key right now! I think, like I was told and have told Fish for months, right now you need to create a safe space for your relationship to foster - if it will. You also need to understand why this happened and seek opportunities to change what you can. In addition, and I have said this so many times... you must accept the worst and prepare for the best.
I hope that you find some hope in our collective stories! I will tell you that after the way that I had treated my wife and marriage it is nothing less than a miracle that I made it this far with her. So I am living proof that even the worst situation can have a positive outcome...
Good luck.
Me: 33 jacka** whom lied, stole, cheated, and basically treated DW like crap for years DW: 29 kind soul who gave too much to me over the relationship
S7 S4
M: 7yrs Bomb: 10/19 Seperated: 10/24
The worst reconciliation is better than the best divorce
