Worried I found DB too late

[newnamenewlife]

It sounds like in this case it was a talk worth having, and it sounds like you have lots of reasons to be hopeful, CW! Missing you is a good, good sign! I wish my H would miss me. He seems not to at all, ever--but sees me only as a necessary evil he has to deal with lately.

Isn't showing one's spouse the DB/DR books kind of like a magician giving away his tricks? Won't he know you're acting "as if" or doing a 180 or GALing and see it as calculated? Just curious as to how both people can be in on it.