I just dont see how she can still consider that we are S while doing all this. She feels we are D to everything but signing papers.
I sometimes dont know why she doesnt file and get it over with. I think maybe guilt has a lot to do with it. Some people has said she is trying to figure out if D is what she wants...Duh...thats a dumb question I think.
I know God will take of me..Patience is something I am trying to learn the most of this experience..
God Bless
Chevelle
Chevelle,
It is most important you focus on you.... Either way, you want to be a better man for future Rs/Ms........
You really need to pray about your sitch with W. If she is having sex with another guy, the ball is in your court if/when she returns.... I personally do not think I could go back.... There are too many issues.....
I am one who would wait forever if my W had issues to resolve..... I would wait as she went to C..... HOWEVER, if there is even a hint of OM, I would end it......
I wish I could be of more help....
You will be in my prayers today...
Go with God,
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
