Fish, I like your optimism, but getting the WAS home is nto the end of the drama.
I think Mink has to be the rock, forever.
He has to be solid, for the duration. She'll come home and they'll have good times. And then she may have second thoughts, doubts. She may get skittish. It's natural. Mink needs to stay solid for a long time. He's THE MAN, though, he can do it.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....