Beginning again like a newbie

[ACJ]

Thanks J,

How woud you go about voiceing your displeasure?

well as I am traditionally a nag and a controller I would do my best do neither of these things. To S15 I will probably just tell him how disappointed I am by his actions and leave it at that. To H I'll probably try to pre-empt it happening by reminding him when he comes to pick S15 up (assuming he goes) that it is Mother's Day and therefore I would appreciate it if he didn't keep him all day at his house.

I'm probably on a hiding to nothing with both of them so I'm trying to get my frustrations out now before it happens so that I can behave in a more civilised way when it does!!!!!!!!1

H always told me I worried too much about things before they happened but I think in this case it might be a good way to go