Nate, the more I read, the more I agree with fish. I know it's hard to see it right now and going out is probably the last thing you want to do. Take your time. But really, $100,000+ in debt? Aren't you glad you don't have to take that one on?
You're better than that. Co-dependant? You bet! But realizing it and avoiding making the same mistakes is what it about now.
And fish, go easy on nate. He just lost his fiance. You can see he's better off, I can see he's better off, but he's still hurting. That's my womens point of view so what do I know?
Ladybug and Fish.....thanks! You guys help me out alot. I know you guys are right.
The thing that hurts the most right now are the fact within one week of leaving me she was living with another guy and opening a joint checking account....did I mean that little to her? I also am bothered by the fact that she treats me like someone that she hates.
I mean within a two week period, she was looking for apartments for us and planning the wedding, told me she missed me, postponponed the wedding, dumped me, gave away her dogs of 9 years, moved in with OM, and opened a joint checking account with OM.
Sometimes I just feel like I am in a bad dream....what the hell is going on? I mean with all her baggage I should have been the one to dump her. How could she dump me? I thought I had a lot to offer.....
Nate
Me: 32 X Fiancee: 34 Bomb: 2/5/08 Separated: 2/6/08
