Today H will be stopping by my office to sign tax forms. It will be the first time I've seen him since a month ago when he met with me to tell me that he was ready to divorce. Since sometime in the night, I have been full of anxiety about seeing him. I hope that by saying it here, I can diffuse it. I want to reframe in a positive light, so I am telling myself that nothing negative has happened in that month, that no further talk of D has taken place, and that this continues to be a time for both of us to heal and focus on what we want in life.
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now