Today H will be stopping by my office to sign tax forms. It will be the first time I've seen him since a month ago when he met with me to tell me that he was ready to divorce. Since sometime in the night, I have been full of anxiety about seeing him. I hope that by saying it here, I can diffuse it. I want to reframe in a positive light, so I am telling myself that nothing negative has happened in that month, that no further talk of D has taken place, and that this continues to be a time for both of us to heal and focus on what we want in life.


me: 47
H: 48
he has 2 grown sons
M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd)
hit iceberg 6/07
S 9/26/07
before
now