I know that she just needs time and I am trying to get myself and my kids to the point of being able to live with out her in the house or even close. I am just afraid of the backseat parenting that she might do from afar.

I ahve talked to her mother and she has asked me to stall the big D as long as I can because she doesn't want it to happen but when I asked her to encourage her to work it out she said that she is going just support her in the decisions she makes......This I find extremely frustrating


Me 36
W 36
S 15
D 12
M 16
Bomb Nov 07
WAS Feb 08
My Sitch http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1376213&page=0&fpart=1