Leah,

You will not get a straight answer out of him right now.

He is not thinking with a clear mind.

If you ask him this he will feel cornered and may either strike back or bolt. Either way ,it is not what you want.

Please read " Midlife Crisis archives" there is a wealth of information on it and it will answer many of your questions.

E

"Sometimes in the winds of change, we find our true direction"

Being the calmness in the storm......