I think your last post can be summed up by the last paragraph.
Originally Posted By: Forrest Gump
She is lucky to have you. You are lucky to have her. She showed you what a DAM you were and you "finally" listened. Maybe you can show her you are the Knight in Shining Armor she has been looking for. Maybe she will "finally" listen. I have said before "People only listen when they want to."
Something like I change my behaviour and she'll change hers.
However when W says things about the A like, "What's done is done, I have no regrets, Oh, just get over it Lan". Is that what I do, just get over it and leave it at that ? I know you say my quest for answers must stop, ok I can see your point. But you also say that in reading my post not much has changed, you can see the same circle of behaviour. Hey, I've been saying that since I've been posting in this section. How do I change things ? Well I know I do act differently cos things don't escalate, but how do I stop them starting from W in the first place, I can't control her behaviour.
All I know is I want things to work, I can see when there is trouble ahead and I can react to stop it. But I want to know how to prevent it in the first place. I don't want to go back to how things were.
