ok i just re-read my last few posts and i guess im going to give myself i kick in the DBing butt. If my W does not deside to try and contact me there is nothing i can do. period. i can make myself better but is she does not meet me that one little step then all i can do is sit back. i promised that i would fight this out so by God i will. if she doesent contact me by out scedualed appotment then i will send her a text that says " let me know if you want to do something" thats it. from there the ball is in her court entierly. if she dosent contact me then. i will wait a month and send her a simuler text. except this time it will be about taxes. i would try the LRT but besided the fact she has some stuff at the house still there is no resone short of dividing marital property that she has to contact me. so i will drop these non r talk invites to do something. but besided that i CANT let this kill me. she lost the right to huirt me like this when she left the house. I will always love her but all i can do now is GAL. and when she DOES come around she my romantic 180.