The guy from Iraq is in Sweden now and she does have contact with him through the internet. I have talked to him even about her leaving and stuff like that. My W said that she is going to tell him she has feelings about him and she would let me know when she did. But I talked to him anyway and told him that I would change and do what it took to make her happy if she chooses that. I also told him just to be a friend to her like he has been. I want her to do well on her own, and I understand the space that she needs right now.

Thank you all for your kind words, they have helped just want to make sure I am staying on the right track.


Me 36
W 36
S 15
D 12
M 16
Bomb Nov 07
WAS Feb 08
My Sitch http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1376213&page=0&fpart=1