Nate, the more I read, the more I agree with fish. I know it's hard to see it right now and going out is probably the last thing you want to do. Take your time. But really, $100,000+ in debt? Aren't you glad you don't have to take that one on?
You're better than that. Co-dependant? You bet! But realizing it and avoiding making the same mistakes is what it about now.
And fish, go easy on nate. He just lost his fiance. You can see he's better off, I can see he's better off, but he's still hurting. That's my womens point of view so what do I know?
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Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
