I'm glad you're able to get back into your house. Make it your safe, comfortable place. I get the same thing with my h blaming me for everything, and making me into the bad guy...oh and I also got the vegetable complaint so I can totally relate.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."