Welcome to DB. Sorry that you're here, but you are in a place that understands. As a mom, it always amazes me when women walk away from their kids. I just can't it past my brain on that one.
But, you are doing the right thing by validating her and giving her space. I also wouldn't stress her out about the kids. No need to call with problems like failing grades. She's too far away to do anything about it and it might sound like you can't handle it yourself.
Is this guy from Iraq back in the states? Does she have contact with him? It sounds like AT LEAST an emotional affair. Just as painful in my book.
Hang in there. Hang out with us, and we'll help you the best we can.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
