She left me with the children because she wants to get her own life started with out me and then the kids come to her. We have normal conversations about them Like how to deal with them and stuff like that but when it comes to talking about us she is very with drawn. She has told me that she wants the kids to be able to have the choice but be cause she was going back to her parents and they are struggling financialy and her brother lives close to them with a history of drug use so I didn't want the 15 year boy around that. We both thought it would be best for them to stay with me. I also found out that my son's grade have slipped temendously and at point I just feel at wits end.


Me 36
W 36
S 15
D 12
M 16
Bomb Nov 07
WAS Feb 08
My Sitch http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1376213&page=0&fpart=1