My H is currently just a roommate to me as well. He keeps talking about leaving, but doesn't seem to be going anywhere. It is difficult. I want to hug him so badly, but I don't think he wants me touching him.

It sounds like you are doing a good job with this game. I am starting to realize that it takes a lot longer than I had thought. I figured in a week I would be past the roommate phase and into friendship. However, we are roommates. The boxes of his DVDs is still on the floor in the living room not unpacked. He will dig through it and watch one and then toss it back in the box. He isn't ready to put them back on the shelf where they belong. The whole entire ordeal has been hard. Hang in there!

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08