Sara,
you where the first person to post to me in july last year (boy what a sucky year). My first post is this:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1119395

I was not faithful in my past and i don't believe i can do things as most because of that.

My only choices are:

Remain in house with w(miserable)(prob lead to d). I'm not miserable she is. Well i am miserable but not as much as she is.

File for d and fight for coustady(this hurts salvation of m).

move out and hope w comes around(this gives w space(witch she respected when i was in camper. she says?))(also hurts me in any custody if she doesnt come around).

VERY confusing! I really dont know what to do!

Any sugestions would be appreciated.

Just when i thought i had some time to fig out what i needed to do w pushes on. meaning she wants me out of our house.

light switch

Me 37 W 37
D21 D17 D12 S8
grandparents 7/07 boy
Married 16 yrs last June 07
Bomb dropped 4/07

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt