I think they have to be ready to finally sever the ties with the other person and then they do it but it is on their timeline, not ours as you know.

They may talk like they are ready but when it comes right down to it, they get scared.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19