Dude - What the hell are you doing? Your DB skills are going right down the toilet!
- Heavy relationship talk - Talking about a potential girlfriend - Talking about having sex
BT my good friend, you are playing right into her hand. I can just hear it.... "Of course I am divorcing BT, he started hinting of a girlfriend." " Of course I am divorcing BT, we had sex last night and I felt nothing."
You need to give her a lot of space RIGHT NOW or this thing is going to get real ugly. I'm talking War of the Roses sh*t. You gave her a lot of ammo tonight and I guarantee at some point she will be ready to use it against you.
- Patience, space, kindness.. everythings cool. - GAL is the key to this sh*t. At least if the marriage does end you are ready to move on.
Good luck my brother. Sorry about breaking out the 2X4, by I have been hit with it MANY times. It took me months to understand this sh*t and I still mess it up. Although right now I am on a bit of a roll.
A month ago, I never would have thought W and I would have had a romantic dinner, make out sessions, divorce postponement and spending the night in the same bed - her decision, not mine.
If I can do it, you can do it. Once the MLC fog clears, you can start making progress. Until then, give her some space.
