Whew! Easy tiger. Any talk of having a girlfriend is going to give her a great excuse to leave you in the dust.

And I guarantee...absolutely guarantee that if you ML with her she is going to tell you that she "didn't feel anything." It will just be one more excuse/opportunity for her to say goodbye.

It happened to me...I just didn't know what was going on.

A few months ago, my wife came home and wanted to ML. "Lucky me!" I thought. Maybe this is the end of the nightmare. It had been almost a year since we ML.

Let's just say I gave her a stellar performance. And you know what happened? She "didn't feel anything" and "I felt like a wh@re." And now everytime we go to MC and the counselor asks about our sex life, I get to hear that whole experience recounted. Believe me, she had a good time, but she'll be damned if she'll admit it. It's just one more way for the MLC alien to reject you so you will feel so horribly hurt that you will reject them. Don't get sucked into that game.

OK BT...listen up. What do you want? Do you want to date other women? Is your patience gone so soon? If so, you need to be honest with yourself and make the move. If you want your wife back, then you need to drop the girlfriend talk and forget about ML until SHE decides to jump your bones. You make the call.

Bomb


Me: 51
W: 50
M 24 yrs
EA: since Apr 06
S22, S26, S28
ILYBNILWY:Nov 07

"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden