I have come to the conclusion, that we have turned into friends and parents that he does nt find me attractive! And to top it off i am going in for a hysterectomy on monday there goes another 6 weeks!
Do not follow me i may not lead, Do not lead me i may not follow, Walk with me and be my friend. Freezing in maine
Sweetie, you are just engaging in a lot of negative self talk. It will do you no good. Let's say you are right and he doesn't find you attractive BUT he committed to being monogamous with you for life. Dontcha think he bears some responsibility to address that with you? Don't you think he owes you the basic courtesy of saying - hey hon, this isn't working, let's see how we can improve things. Getting a hysterectomy is probably messing with your head a bit - relax, give yourself time to heal physically and mentally and then get your head on straight. If that means therapy for yourself - Do it! If it means getting a makeover so you find your groove - do it. Join a gym, a book club, a poker club, a running club - whatever. But first, heal.
