Pay no attention to the man behind the curtain 29

[Lissie]

, I am told that I shoukld "wait for him outside his job to talk to him" - actual advice. it is so frustrating! I hope we get Happy's answer, too.

Yeah, I see you haven't done it yet. whatever, if you keep doing nothing, you will get nothing.

Your situation is different, but i have never seen a "fear" like yours. And I don't want to hear, your come backs really.

Stop asking happy, stuff, and go read his old theads. You know maybe DO something to look for answers, b/c everytime someone tries, you just say you are gone, and blah blah

Anewme is an angel from God, I was strong enough to get out of bed one day, b/c of one of her posts to me.

So the fact that her H is a drop out now, is very different than your situation WL.

Anewme has an H, that his life is crumbling before him and his pride is bigger than himself.
God is chipping at that pride daily, b/c anewme's prayers are endless. But she doesn't just sit there, and wait,

She helps, others, she posts to others, she prays for our children, our family.

As we do for hers.

Happy is the reason, that i stopped hating Javier, and started forgiving him, even tho he was being an animal. B/c Happy is one of the peeps, that helped me realize, that the chip on my shoulder was keeping me stuck. I stopped answering back. I listened. I didnt say, you know what happy, I have done this, and i have done that.

B/c the way i was defending myself to happy, was the same way i was defending myself to Javier. I had to bite my cuban tongue. And listen, and learn.

I never knew anyone that was exactly like Javier. To the point of the words, the phrases, the hatred.

And now look at Happy.

Good grief, if his heart can be softened, well............

Any marriage here can be a miracle.