By crying on his shoulder because the man she was with before was engaged, he promised to break it off with his fiancee to be with her and he never did. He got married instead. She cried on my H's shoulder how she would never get involved with a guy who was taken ever again. Well guess what? She did, my H.
So I hoping that she will be afraid that my H will leave her. Maybe she is and just doesn't show it yet?