I have to beleive that just by virtue of the fact that we have children with them and have a long history with them added to the fact that they are "dating", "living with", or "sleeping with" a married man is enough to make the insecurities come out. I guess my thought is if they didn't have the insecurities they wouldn't have gotten involved with a married man.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
