Wantlove, I am not sure if I ever posted to you but I did follow your threads.
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I am here for the same reason as everyone else - to get support in order to get through this horrible time.
Yes, but unlike everyone else, you don't seem to want to listen to any advice. You ask for it and then say "well I don't think this board is for me." Your sitch is not that much different than anyone else. We all hurt and there are so many people on here that can help you if you just listen.

Have you read any of the post on your last thread? A lot of people posted to you in support but you chose to disappear.
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I want to continue to learn all I can, for H, for M, AND for me.
Well then put on your listening ears for once! I don't mean to be harsh and come across as bashing, but what is it going to take you to wake up and actually listen to what other's are trying to tell you? It seems like when you hear something you don't want to hear, you leave. That's why Happy probably feels like "what's the point?" Are you really willing to listen to him? I mean really?

I do wish you all the best WL, but you really can find a lot of help here if you REALLY want it.


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009