have you ever had the balls to just say fuckit! to tell her that this is the way things are going to be and tell her friend to piss off and just lay down the law and tell her you want this marriage to work and we are going to do this together. she needs to see you arent going to fold and be a wimp.thatg you mean business. no more mr nice guy. well you know what i mean not to be an [censored] either but no more bullshit. it seems to me that you have always given in to her and she takes advantage.