i dont want to piss you off but you didnt answer my question. are you done?
Nope, I'm not. However, W is 'done' and just wants to get out. No faith that we will ever be able to work together.
Read my threads and you'll see this has been a cycle for us.
And you'll also see that she isn't a good match for me as far as being 'supportive' when I need support. She waits for me to 'fix it' and then if I don't she eventually runs away. She's had an affair and has run 3 times now. This time she's saying that she has to do what's good for her at all costs, given lot's of reasons.
She's pretty shut down right now, and her friend 'P' helps her to see the 'good future' she has if she bails. She has friends who are new age types, who have failing or failed relationships but help her to choose to 'find herself'.
I will agree with you, I do 'pussyfoot' more often than I should. However, part of it is because I've been in a bad depression / anxiety state for the past year and gotten no help or support. While I'm getting help / support NOW it's not completely gone, I'm not completely 'healed' and I don't want to do things to push her away, but I can't DB either because I need to focus on my own stuff.
