I see H and OW at every sporting event of our S18's. H works very hard not to look my direction so there is no accidental eye contact. Sad...if he does want to ask me something about finances, he sends me a very impersonal email. It sucks! 21 years of marriage and 22 years together and that is all I get.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.