She keeps saying that she just does not have that feeling and doesn't know if it is coming back.
Are you sure you weren't talking to my wife? Good grief...if I had a nickel for every time my wife said those exact same words...
BT, this is just a healthy dose of the good ol' MLC "I don't know" script which will drive you nuts if you listen to it. They're so confused and scared and filled with inner turmoil that they don't know anything. I'm amazed they can tie their shoes.
The next time she say's that, instead of asking her to give it some time, tell her "You know what? I don't know either."
She is beyond posessed, she has an answer for everything and life has been miserable for 200 years.
If everything my wife said about our marriage was true, I should be serving 30 years to life in the federal pen for general cruelty to the human race.
You're doing just fine, BT. Now...start to give her the impression that you're moving on with life. You should be doing that anyway. It'll make her stop and think, and raise doubt and confusion.
You're doing a fine job.
Me: 51 W: 50 M 24 yrs EA: since Apr 06 S22, S26, S28 ILYBNILWY:Nov 07
"It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything." Tyler Durden
