Snodderly (and/or anybody else who can help with this),

Can you direct me to a book or something/somewhere/article that has more information regarding "not ready yet!"? (I.e. Steelersfan's husband says he's coming home and has given dates but still isn't home.) I'm sure it's in one of the 6 phases but I would just like something else to read. Thanks!

And does the "house cleaning phase" come onto the LBS like "nesting" does before a woman gives childbirth? My whole family is making comments about my cleaning.