Happy, I have done nothing but took the higher road when it comes to his family. Especially, his mother. She is a piece of work.
I think I will still send a card, at least to his Grandfather. (it's a dual bday celebration for H's mother and Grandfather)
Ok, ok...maybe I will send MIL a card too. At least if anything, ow will see it and it will bother her that we still have a R of sorts. I know, I know, who cares what the ow thinks, right? Just thinking out loud.
but did you ever think he would be embarassed in case anyone who didnt know you are separated It's going to be just his family and they all know about us. I think he would rather bring his bimbo.