Emily, I was trying to apologize and help you understand why I'm frustrated. You insist upon talking over me and arguing with me. All I want is to be able to talk about our problems but you won't allow it. I'm sorry for swearing. I'm sorry for a lot of things, but I can't even apologize without you busting my balls. If you could listen for a few minutes and make an honest attempt at discussing things with me without the insults, contradictions and arguments things would be a whole lot better. You said you want our marriage to win but you're still arguing for yourself. I just want to resolve the problems. I haven't chosen anything over you. Even if you still want a divorce I would like to be able to talk like adults without all the lawyer BS. And I'm still going to need to talk to you about the kids. Please stop sending me text messages calling me names. Please start discussing things with me like an adult.
By the way I drove past his house this morning on my way to church about 7:30 and his car wasn't there...meaning he didn't come home last night...
What do you think?
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."