I hated her. she was a constant reminder of everything that i was running away from. there were times when my daughter made the same expressions as her and it made me angry. i blamed ali for everything because i didnt want to face myself and yet at night sometimes i cried myself to sleep because i missed my homelife and sometimes even ali. i was a real mess i think worse then your husband.when ali stopped fighting back and just acted like a friend i began to take notice.