I am so confused, not sure what hand I am playing

[Snow White]

It does not hurt and you are probably right, I ask questions because I would like honest answers and I am glad there are people here that will give them to me. Texting at all is a 180 for me, I never did it before and lectured my husband when he did because it is 15 cents a pop. So he texted her instead.
This week he has texted me close to 300 times,yes I am responding but when I don;t there are 3 or 4 more right behind wondering why not. THe bill is going to be high but I kind of felt like at this point maybe I need to stop lecturing about money and if he is reaching out to talk to me at all it is a good thing. It is different when I am sitting at a bar, there is no way he would have responded to me that many times. Check out the first post in my sitch and what he told the MC his biggest issue was.