Beginning again like a newbie

[ACJ]

I've had my parents here this weekend and it was good.

My dad bless him finished decorating my new porch and my mum and I went to a craft fair today. We had a really nice time.

After a convo with the girls last night it seems like H is trying to use them as pawns again. They told me a while ago that he had invited them to breakfast on 2nd March. I didn't think much about it at the time and neither did they. It was only when I was telling my mum that our visit to the craft fair today was my treat for Mother's Day (she goes on holiday on Thurs so won't be here) that the girls realised that this was the day H had invited them.

I said nothing but they had plenty to say!!!!!!!! They both decided there and then that they wouldn't be going. I said they weren't to not go just b/c it was Mother's Day. My own mum objected to this and said they should be with me on that day but I pointed out it was only for breakfast. The girls re-iterated that they wouldn't be going.

About half an hour ago I asked S15 if the girls had shared thier decision with him and he said no and asked why they weren't going.I told him it was b/c it is Mother's Day. He asked if I minded if he went. I told him that was his decision to make. He asked me again if I would be bothered if he went and I repeated what I already said. Then he went upstairs and siad he had just given me the chance to say I didn't want him to go. I pointed out that it could also be construed that I had told him I didn't want him to go. I still don't know what he will do. I will be very hurt if he goes but will not say anything.