The fact she is going to counseling w/ you is huge. Keep staying slow and steady. It doesn't make any sense, but it is the reality we are living.
We want them to snap out of it right away, but they won't. Time works for you if you use the time to improve yourself. Time is our enemy if we sit and wait, and wait, and wait.
I'm in a funk personally as I too agree the weekends are very difficult. However, Bruce's suggestion to begin planning your weekends early on Monday and keep them packed is a good one. I may use that one myself.
Keep improving yourself. Stay tough w/ your DBing and use this forum to vent, so you don't do it w/ your wife.
I'm starting to keep tabs on the calendar of how many "slips" (backslides) and how many "pressures" I have each week. My goal will be for zeros in both categories and I'm hoping the records will help me to keep my focus.
