Stella, Thanks so much for that link on my thread. I found that analogy so enlightening.
Although you have been apart for a year, you've just recently found out about OW. Just as in my case, it takes time to deal with all the emotions of infidelity. It has to be one of the most painful things a spouse will ever go through. Hopefully in time, it won't hurt as much.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
