Why "must" you be around when H is visiting with your D??? If he doesn't want to physically be a family anymore, then he should get to know what that's really going to be like.

Sounds like he wants all the comforts of home without actually having to live there. He shouldn't be allowed to have it all HIS way - not live with you but have you there when it's supposed to be his time with your D because that's how HE wants it.

Just my two cents.

Last edited by GoingForward; 02/24/08 10:08 PM.
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