At the start of DBing in my sitch, I was very vague with my H and seldom returned his calls. It really bothered him not knowing where I was at, what I was doing, who I was with, etc, etc....He saw me as a different person, and the phone calls increased (on his part).
Even the guy I dated for over a year during my separation said something to the same effect. One time I asked if I could have a sip of his drink. He said sure, if I didn't mind catching his cooties . I said it was too late for that. He charmingly replied, "Really? Hmm...I'd like to think there was still an aura of mystery there, wouldn't you?"
Be vague about your plans and whereabouts. Keep him wondering.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
. I said it was too late for that. He charmingly replied, "Really? Hmm...I'd like to think there was still an aura of mystery there, wouldn't you?"
