ok my wife is moving today

[Where is Hope?]

My H has complained that he was waiting for me to make the moves during our separation. I DID! I said let's get together to:
establish house rules for the kids, go on dates, go to lunches, Thanksgiving, Christmas, shopping, etc. He's done NOTHING except for one booty call in the beginning of December! And on that day and that day ALONE did he say he wanted to work out the marriage!

There is no rhyme or reason for any of it. Just pain. I am so sorry you are in this...I just can't say it enough.