Im doing alright ken.I know what you mean all you can think about! Thats really my biggest problem right now and i think its about to become your problem too.Its like i need to know what shes doing,but I also know I must stop that.Thats probably the hardest part of this whole thing!Havent spoke to her in five days longest yet.I also know what you mean when they act like nothings wrong,it is really strange.But I see relly no other way of handling this.We have to stay on course and do the right thing for ourselves,the kids,and the wife.I think if your alone tonight you shoul do anything you can to grt your mind off of it I know its hard.Just get out !it will help.Good luck ken!!!


Me:42 W:41 Married 22 seperated12-31-07,served papers 2-29-08 S21-S20 partialy disabled S17
Divorce sighed 10-7-08 final 90 days after