what do you have that she wants to come back to? whining and snivelling like a freaking girl. grow some balls and get back into the game. you are equally to blame for her shortcomings. do you really ever follow through on the promises you have made to your wife?thread after thread of whining and venting and grumbling and moaning. poor me poor me. your wife wasn't alone in breaking up your family. its just more of the same. its time for you to do the real work and carry the burden of the family for a while and stop snivelling about it. it all depends how badly you want to save your marriage, maybe you oughta stop trying to save everyone elses and concentrate on your own. what is it they say physician heal thyself.
I'm sorry you have so much anger in you that you have to give it to me. Perhaps you might take a moment to think about what your post has to do with your own situation? Because it's not about me, I'm not whining and I'm doing what I can to 'heal myself'.
I also 'supported' the family through a PA / divorce threat 2 years ago and here it is again because I didn't take care of myself. So, perhaps if you took the time to know me you'd understand the purpose behind my posts.
What are you doing to heal yourself? Why are you so angry?
