i just dont get this at all. if my wife felt pressured to get married she should have told me that she wanted to be engaged for a longer time. if she felt herself slipping away she should have went to counseling on her own. now she is in chicago with her friends for the weekend and is realy " working on the marrage". i see the woman i love and she wont even initiat contact with me.
I was neglectful in the romance department i see that now. but i CANT make anything up if she dosent let me in. a 180 for me would be planing dates and makeing romantic gestures. but right now im not even allowed to call her as she wants space....but in the exacty same &%$^*$@ sentence she says she wants me to make all the first moves. o God help me.
