Partner left after 9 years - now we're friends??

[AliSuddenly]

Hi Kalni, Jeff and OneDay! I'm not going to cancel but I am nervous about going..I hate flying ! Wanted to show my BF I can fly, its a massive 180 for me. We didnt go abroad alot because of my fear and he wasnt that happy about it. Our last two holidays were to Norway and Sweden, I did it for him but I could only manage an hour flight! (and wept and panicked all the way). Berlin is a 3 or 4 hour flight I think! So, wish me luck, I will probs be breathing into a brown paper bag the whole way :-0

Hey Michelle, fancy coming to live in DB HQ! You can drill us round the lounge to help us keep up the fight :-)
I have had yet MORE messages today (ok, two! But thankyou Oneday for pointing out that I am getting more and more and better quality communications from him. I must sound like an ungrateful brat whining that nothing has changed, I was just disheartened that he took off back home instead of opening up to me, but hey ho). Anyway...latest installment (this is like some crummy low grade Soap Opera, like Knotts Landing !!?)

He texted this afternoon to say - Only kidding about his friend, he didnt try it on really! and the film was very mad and full of carnage.

I left it several hours before replying that he really had me going there for a while, funny, and that I heard the body count was 230+ and that I hoped he was ok.

He replied STRAIGHT BACK telling me the film was indeed gory and too horrible in places for him to watch, that he was "ok-ish" and probably back tommorow, he thinks. He then said "Hope you're ok too". Hmm...wonder if he will stay up there a few more days?? and why is he telling me that?

Its like he's playing me at my own game now!! I dont reply when he asks, you ok? but just say "hope you're ok" and he replies saying "hope you're ok too". Its like some kind of DBing duel! Whose gonna fire first!?

He sent this a couple of hours ago and I feel a bit mean, as I havent replied as yet. Should I keep the communication going?

Was thinking of replying "Sorry your ok-ish, I hope you have some company there. I did hear the film was very gory! I have been working today" and that was it. Usual question...SHOULD I REPLY?? :-)