Sorry you feel so frustrated. My D7 goes to C at school and loves it. It's been so good for her. She said 'I can talk about my feelings w/ Ms. E, but I just play'. So I like to see kids have a neutral outlet they can go to. Just keep supporting your D and support the therapy so your D doesn't feel stigmatized for going.
Very frustrating about the motion of contempt. It sounds like your X does have some issues she needs to work thru, continuing to blame you for everything won't solve anything. So keep your chin up. Vent as needed. Keep being the best dad you can. It'll all sort out and the main thing is that YOU can sleep at night.
