Leave him alone? I don't contact him. I give him space. I have totally walked out of his life like he wanted.
I just don't want to give up but I feel I don't have a choice. How can you work on a marriage if the other person flat out refuses? I read in the DB book that when a spouse has made up their mind and will not budge there is nothing the LBS can do but work on themselves.
I really miss him and wish he would have given us a chance. I just don't feel any better after 5 months of not seeing him and leaving him alone. I just have this sense of all this being unfair.
So many different cases I have read where the left spouse at least can talk to that person, try and make a difference. The the leaving spouse has not fully left. There is some form of contact, some even still live in the same house together. Why can't I get that? Why can't I have a chance to at least talk to him. Why am I giving him what he wants by leaving him alone? Obviously I am not getting what I want so why should I still cater to him by leaving quietly?
